Posted on May 2, 2022May 2, 2022Categories advice, growth mindset, introspection, journal, Monday's musing, reflection, relationships, thought process, transition, transparency, Uncategorized, vulnerabilityTags , ,

Thoughts on unsolicited advice…

Some people know that I am not at all a fan of unsolicited advice… And saying “I’m not a fan…” is actually putting it pretty mildly because I truly cannot stand when people give advice that I didn’t ask for because they’re “just trying to help…” And don’t get me wrong… I have no problem seeking out the wise counsel of someone when necessary…. But unsolicited advice is annoying because in my experience that advice has never been helpful because … Continue reading “Thoughts on unsolicited advice…”

Posted on January 24, 2022January 24, 2022Categories advice, growth mindset, hopeful, introspection, journal, leadership, Monday's musing, reflection, thought process, Uncategorized, vulnerabilityTags , , ,

Speak life…

It’s interesting how people who haven’t… or wouldn’t… or maybe they couldn’t make the moves that you have made… But it’s interesting how these people are quick to offer unsolicited advice that oftentimes isn’t applicable to your specific circumstances… And it’s equally interesting when these same people expect an explanation regarding why you don’t want to listen to this unsolicited advice… Heavy emphasis on the advice being unsolicited because I am not saying that you shouldn’t consider perspectives that are … Continue reading “Speak life…”